In my last post I asked myself if meeting up with my ex was a mistake. I now have an answer. It was in no way a mistake. I'm glad that I was able to spend some time with him, but it really helped me to understand that he isn't the guy for me. When I was dating him I was happy and I know that I do truly love him, but he was there to teach me a lesson. In our relationship he always acted like a gentleman and from that I believed I learned what I deserve in a relationship. I deserve to be treated well. He always did make sure that he was a gentleman, but he just isn't for me. I would never regret being with him and I would never think badly of him in any way. I really do wish him the best. I hope that he finds a girl who is absolutely perfect for him. I know I wasn't that girl for him, but there is one out there. He deserves to be happy and absolutely in love with his perfect girl.
I believe that every failed relationship teaches us something that will benefit us in our next relationship. From my failed relationships I have learned what it means to really get to know someone, I have learned that I deserve a guy who wants to be with me more than anything, and I have learned to not let a guy use me. As much as it hurts to see a relationship end, it just means that there is someone better out there for you. Not everyone can find the person for them on the first try. Many have to learn a few lessons along the way before they can truly be happy in a relationship.
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